The journey to removing all my Instagram posts Photo by Miguel A Padrinan via Pexels Summer is the season for all kinds of projects or improvements. Each year, decluttering is […]
Life - Opinion
A black man said black women need to lose weight. Black women agreed.
Photo by Chris Mac on Unsplash A Facebook user made a simple post. It read: “Black women I’m sorry, but you need to lose weight.” Amongst the hundreds of comments, the presumption before […]
Life - Opinion
No, the Karmelo Anthony and Cyrus Belton case is not the wake up call we need
Every day in melanin skin is the wake up call Photo by Nsey Benajah on Unsplash Karmelo Anthony, a black teenager was sentenced to 35 years in prison for the stabbing death of […]
Dating - Life - Life Lessons - Personal Development - Relationships
Why I stopped listening to Tony Gaskins
The one statement that ended it all Photo by Nadine E on Unsplash At the height of podcasts and YouTube life/relationship channels, Tony Gaskins hit my timeline. His down to earth, direct, yet […]
Life - Opinion
Should black men and women work together?
This influencer seems to think so Photo by Thiago Vale on Unsplash Recently I came across a video from 19 Keys, a popular thought leader, entrepreneur, and author with a heavy social media […]
Life - Opinion
Motivation is dead
How not to move in 2026 Photo by Martin Sanchez on Unsplash Not quite sure when it hit me, but when it did, it did. The thought was motivation by definition was not […]
Dating - Life Lessons - Opinion - Relationships
Black women don’t want a Russell Wilson until he becomes Russell Wilson
Everything changes when fame comes into play Photo by Clarke Sanders on Unsplash Years ago I was able to ask a former neighbor why he only dated white girls back in the day. […]
Opinion - Writing
I was asked what my favorite movie was as a prompt for a writing class
Here is how I responded Conversations with my eldest son take me back to the 80’s, 90’s era filled with classic movies and soundtracks to match. As a kid I […]
Life - Life Lessons
One good reason you’re friendless in your 40’s
To have a friend, be a friend is sound advice. But what if you’re too good of a friend? Roughly nine years have passed since seeing or talking to a childhood […]
Life - Life Lessons - Relationships
I offered to pay my half for dinner. What happened next was surprising.
In this modern dating era of 50/50, women wouldn’t believe what ALL men know Late Spring I reconnected with a former co worker. The call was surprising considering we hadn’t […]